If you want anything in your life, and you want to achieve it with as much ease as possible, you have to be in complete alignment with it. This means, you need to be able to commit 100% to having it .
If reaching your goal isn’t 100% congruent with your beliefs, you’ll end up sabotaging the results in some way.
As author, Denise Linn is fond of saying, “The soul loves the truth“. So does the rest of our being – from our bodies to our minds. If we somehow harbor beliefs about whether or not we deserve something, are “good enough” to achieve it, or even that “no one in my family has ever had or done this“, we won’t be able to accomplish what we set out to do. We’ll find ways of sabotaging ourselves. It can be something as simple as missing an appointment, or not noticing when the perfect opportunity shows up to help you. But by becoming completely in alignment with your goals and desires, you’ll find yourself more aware of the steps you need to take. You’ll also find there’s much less struggle involved. Suddenly you’ll find yourself saying “yes” to a meeting, or proposal that supports what you’re trying to accomplish. If, in the past you had the belief that “I don’t deserve this“, you might have turned down those opportunities because you didn’t believe enough in yourself.
If you’re looking for more ease in accomplishing your goals, then I suggest you take the time to explore this. If you can be completely honest with yourself, you might find there are a few reasons you hadn’t been aware of, that stand in your way. Once you identify them, the next step is to remove them.
Is it easy? Not always. But as you practice this everyday, it becomes more of a habit. Try it. See if you can identify the important things you’d like in your life. Your “noble truths” as they’ve been called, or your “true values”.
Once you’ve identified them, check on how much you’re committed to having them in your life. If it’s not 100%, explore what it is that keeps you from being able to commit. Are there old beliefs from your life? Maybe messages from parents, siblings, or teachers? Whatever they are, choose to change or release them from your belief systems.
Two of the tools I use when working with clients, is by using EFT and/or FasterEFT. This technique helps access the subconscious mind. This is the part of the mind where any thoughts or limiting beliefs are stored. When you know what the blocks or beliefs are, you can do the work to get rid of them. EFT is an excellent tool for doing this. It helps to move quickly through them and release them for good.
Some basic examples of beliefs that hold people back are:
- Life is hard
- I don’t deserve this
- Nobody in my family has ever done this – who do I think I am?
- It will take too much time or effort
- My life is too complicated to be able to do this
If you want to identify any blocks you could be holding on to, find a time when you won’t be interrupted. Sit down with a piece of paper and write down any messages you heard growing up that might be the culprits. Anything a teacher, parent, or older sibling could’ve said. These are usually said with absolute conviction and were meant as a way to help you be responsible in life. Unfortunately, these are the very messages holding us back most times.
Some of these messages also come in the form of what we’ve observed about our lives or other people’s lives. If you take the time to do the work regarding this, you’ll be rewarded with better results and more success.
Once you’re able to commit 100%, not only will your awareness open up to different possibilities and ways to achieve success, but your determination will also grow.
I hope you’ll dare to explore what it is that truly brings you joy and then commit 100% to having it in your life.